In order for a guy to have a sexual interest in the opposite sex, it is not at all necessary to create a romantic setting with candles. This can happen anywhere, anytime. An erotic background can appear unexpectedly during work, a walk in the woods, or normal conversation.
To the question: "How to understand that a man is aroused? " - each girl will confidently answer that it is noticeable from erection. In fact, not everything is as primitive as it seems. Psychologists confirm that the desire to possess a woman betrays the appearance, facial expression, body movements of a man. Speech can only convey information that a person intends to convey to others, and the face and body will give the true feelings and state of an excited man.
To understand that a man is aroused, there are some signs.
The most proven and accurate way to check if a guy is horny is to look at his pants just below the waist, or even better, to touch his hand.
An erection is the dominant sign of a man's sexual arousal. At the time of the rush of blood to the head of the penis, the male organ hardens. In this case, the internal pressure can coincide with the arterial pressure, which allows the organ to change shape and increase its size.
There are times when, with emotional sexual arousal, an erection does not occur. This is a sign of vascular disease, diabetes mellitus, psychological distress, or stress.
Non-verbal signals
There are several non-verbal body signals that better than any words tell about a man's sexual state.
- During the conversation, the boy begins to involuntarily approach the object of his attention. And gradually the distance between the bodies inevitably decreases. Then a light touch of the hands and feet will follow. This gesture will not involve an active action, it will be almost invisible. But that's how a new love story can begin.
- If a woman is nearby, the man wants to touch her, hug her. But it happens that circumstances do not allow it, and he tries to occupy his hands: he buttons and unbuttons his collar, fiddles with a tie, twists a button, smooths and ruffles his hair, pulls his jacket. With enough excitement, the young man wants his partner to know. A man can get aroused when he touches her hand or other body parts, straightens the woman's hair, searches for a mutual gaze, while she literally approaches. Therefore, don't be surprised when a seemingly calm gentleman suddenly starts actively helping out of the car or serving a coat. Everything is understandable: pleasant gestures of participation are another way to touch the object of your interest with your hand. When sexual arousal arrives, the guy begins to caress and automatically rotate in his hands an object that has fallen into his hands, which has the shape of a cylinder. Whether it's a pen, a glass, etc. This is no longer a signal, but a decisive appeal.
Courtship phase
If a man expresses sexual sympathy for a woman, he will surely designate him by her behavior. If the meeting takes place in a restaurant, he will fill the glass with wine, offer a snack and help sit on a chair and get up from it. He will do all this not only through good manners, but his actions will be guided by the instinct of the masculine principle: to obtain a further opportunity to touch the object of his desire for him. This expression of concern suggests that the young man is planning a breakfast together.
Poses of a man
Noticing a sexually interesting girl, the internal switch of the female heart conqueror switches to the "alpha male" position. And here begins the movements that will tell the interest of a man: a quick pull-up of the abdomen, alignment of the back (a hint of good physical shape), a rotation of the shoulders, in a sitting position, raising the legs. Such a gesture, as it were, suggests that he has something to offer a woman.
Also, faced with the subject of adoration of him, the boy tries to appear in a favorable light. He straightens, pulls in the stomach, straightens his chest.
Sometimes the signs of incipient arousal can be read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). Women also have such gestures. They betray the excitement. And touching the lips or licking them unequivocally alludes to the sexual nuances of these manipulations.
Physical reactions
- Rapid breathing, enlarged pupils, parted lips, slightly hoarse voice - this is a conditional signal that a man's thoughts are working in a certain direction.
- The slightly dilated nostrils seem to catch the scent of the female, which indicates obvious sympathy.
- At the same time, thirst appears, which is associated with an increase in body temperature.
- Visible redness on the cheeks.
- Touch the chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating these areas, the boy is trying to hide the reflex nervousness and autoerotic symptoms. When he gets aroused, the skin on his face becomes very sensitive to the touch.
- When a man is possessed by passion, he loses control of her gaze and his word. With a blurry look, blushing and turning pale, even the most sane guy begins to bring such nonsense that a girl can doubt the suitability of him. It's simple: at this moment information is being processed that is not sent to the brain at all.
- A sign of an excited state will also be the deviation of the topic of conversation towards intimacy. An erotic association can arise in him when discussing everyday and everyday things.
Every man gets excited by the visual image. So that a woman does not have to continuously monitor her erection and listen to her partner's breathing, for fear of missing a moment of incipient arousal, it is worth learning to interest the man and attract her attention.
And in conclusion, a little advice: during love games, do not turn off the light, since a young man, not seeing a girl, will not be able to get aroused enough and she will not know if he is ready for sexual exploits.